Infidelity could be considered a common phenomenon. Although it sounds harsh and some people might be irritated by this statement, you don’t have to be. Even though it’s almost impossible to not have experienced the sensation of infidelity or the feeling of it (if I can use that term), it’s not impossible to not have felt the urge to indulge in the “taste” for it at some point in their lives. Why? Why? We are referring to the ability of each person to manage their own impulses, needs and desires.
Infidelity is determined by our lifestyle, the social environment we live in, interpersonal relationships, a state (marital relations, reaction of sentimental revenge), necessity, and a primal instinct.
Infidelity is most common in extramarital affairs. I also don’t take into consideration harsh, brutal legislation. Infidelity can be punished with death in some civilizations. What’s the point? Infidelity never dies. This is because we are often unfaithful to our instincts. It takes a lot of training to ensure that your cerebral part of the brain prevails over the biological impulse. This impulse can trigger some responses that will make you want relationships with other people even if you are already in love.
Some people live at the peak of their infidelity and stimulation of sexual fantasies. They feel so sexually exaggerated just by thinking about how they can put it into practice.
Infidelity can also be caused by the need for approval, to feel valued, to find the love that was lost, and to feel important. All of this requires some form of satisfaction. Infidelity is a result of a lack of affection, communication, understanding, and availability between the partners.
Infidelity can also be done out of love. This is a form of infidelity that can be practiced by anyone, regardless of gender, who seeks a particular interest. It involves the satisfaction of sexual desires in a conditioned way or the attainment of a goal.
Fifidelity can be a choice, an option. Genetically speaking, I believe infidelity is hidden somewhere in our DNA, and it is waiting for us to take it into consideration.
Unfaithfulness does not necessarily mean that you have to be married. It doesn’t matter what type of relationship we are in (marital, love or professional), if you move to the “other place”, it is usually a sign that you have reasons. This can indicate that you need to overhaul your relationship and that you are at risk of starting a bad phase. It is important to ask yourself if infidelity can solve your problems as a couple. There’s a good possibility that it won’t. It is important to not let the problems go on their own. A divorce or separation could be the end of the tunnel. Be objective and accept the truth as soon as you can. Infidelity won’t solve your problem. Are you feeling overwhelmed and unable to manage your life? Talking to a therapist is not an excuse. A psychologist can help you to see the world in a realistic and accurate way so you can move on.
Routine in a relationship is one of the most dangerous “agents”, which can lead to infidelity. If you both are aware of this, you can save your relationship. Both of you recognize that your relationship will only return to its original state if you put in the effort.